divorcing with dignity

Many years ago, my husband and I had reached the end of the road. Over the last 4 years of our marriage we had talked, tried to recapture the magic, tried all the things we were supposed to do, and yet we were still growing further apart. We slept on the outside edges of our super-king sized bed: the empty space between us in bed symbolic of our lives. We spoke about our children, work and house stuff, but no longer about our feelings, our dreams or our needs. My husband was (still is) a good man, but together we were making each other very unhappy. When we finally spoke of divorce I was determined to find a way of doing it with honour, respect and without solicitors. And that's what happened.

When I began coaching, I started to help people through this same process - and I called it, "Divorcing with Dignity".

What is divorcing with dignity? It's about being able to look back on your divorce with your head held high knowing that you did it in a dignified manner. That if you have children that their needs are met. It's about working things out fairly. It's about respecting your spouse and the time you have shared together.

Divorcing – even when done with dignity – is challenging and often sad. Before we set out on this journey, I want you to be sure – very sure – this is the path you want to go down. We will begin by looking at…

• what is your relationship like now?
• when did things begin to unravel for you and your spouse?
• what have you done to try and heal the relationship?
• if your spouse changed some of their ways, would you stay?
• if you have children – how best can you continue to be Mum and Dad whilst no longer living together?
• what are all of your available options?
• if you decide to go down this path, what is the likely response of your spouse both initially and in the longer term?

HOW DOES IT WORK?
Everyone is unique. Although there are steps that apply to most people going through this process – how I coach you through it will be tailored to your needs. The best way is to discuss you situation and see how I can help you. Call me on 01305 821799 or 0845 83 86 733 (lo call rate) or email me.

HOW MUCH DOES MY COACHING COST?
I take a spiritual approach to payment – based on the value to you and ability to pay. Please read about my payment system by clicking on spiritual payments. All coaching is paid for in advance. You can pay by credit card, bank transfer or cheque.

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